Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Love!!

WHAT IS VERY SACRED IN THIS WORLD ?
WHAT IS THE SPIRIT MADE UP OF ?
WHAT IS WORTH TO LIVE FOR ?
WHAT IS WORTH TO DIE FOR ?

Its Love

When a person Loves any other Person truly
His/her happiness will start and end with their Partner
He/she starts living their life
He/she sees their partner every where and also think about them everytime
and relate every work to them
He/she Literally lives a life

Like a Single SOUL trapped in two diff bodies
Their partner can only gives completeness on this earth

thats why
When we love a person

For the entire society or World He/she is just a Person
But for Us they will become our World
and we will be in a great bliss state and enjoying the Love


A Person who have this greatest feeling or true love for another person can live a life of Love with marriage

A person who has this great and true feeling for God will love everyone and everything in that way
He sees God everywhere
For him every thing is God as God is everywhere

Then that Person is called as Saint or Sanyas

Love vs Lust(Desire)

Now a days people r very confused about Love and Lust

When we Love We tries to add something to our partner's happiness

We least bother in our happiness coz automatically their happiness will be our happiness


When its not True Love
we always tries to get something for us

At starting we may get but when time goes on we will become fed up and just the Relation will dilute

Love means to give and to give and to give and expect nothing in return

Lust or Desire means expecting something in return to make themselves happy by taking from their partner

In simple words

Wanting from that Person ---is Lust (or desire)
Wanting that Person only ---is Love

As they say to fall in Love with the same person again and again is the beauty of Relationship or fuel which is required for the relationship

In Spirituality One love the World and people even more and In True way

as They are not effected by the Results

Depression always comes when A person's Emotions or Expectations are depended on Another person

In Spirituality We will Learn to Love everyone without Expectations So our Love never ends with those Expectation and stays Forever

Love is not the thing which we have 2 learn
we r made up of Love, we r born from Love and The Nature of Self itself is Love


The Characteristics,nature,elements and energy of man (or any male creature)
Positive,Bright,Active,Day,Dry,Hot,Fire, Sun and Masculine ETC (Chinese its yan )

The Characteristics,nature,elements and energy of Women (or any female creature)
Negative,Dark,Passive ,Night,Wetness,Cold,Water,Moon And Feminine (Chinese its yin)

The Life of Animals

The jungle is their home which is guided by Nature (which also means seasons )
the Male being has the Power
he will be the leader among the crowd and will be guiding them
Female will be protecting the kids

Male will be seeing a cave or the place when they want a family to protect themselves and also for their babies
female will be looking after their babies
Male animals will go for hunting and will return after a day with their food

and when the babies became young they will also go and learn hunting from their fathers

The life of Birds

female will be there on a Tree
Male birds not only build nests but they will began to sing and dance to get the attention

Its wat we say attraction,or flirt or the things Men do 2 get the attention

If the female bird like the dance it will accept his invitation
Now what actually the Female Bird sees the strength(capability) of his Body through Dance and the work by its Nest

The Life Under Water (Fishes )

Its from my personal experience and the most watchable and playful phase

After Making Love The Time when Female Fish carries its Eggs

The Male will be Busy in making Caves ,They will carry small pebbles with mouth and build a cave like thing in which the female will be resting

After giving the Fries (babies) The male protect them from other fishes and guide them in the New World and Female try to feed the food.

Living in Caves(Homes) Making Love Giving Birth 2 Babies ,protecting them
teaching them how to Hunt (Career) and making them capable to lIve on their Own

Learning and adopting The seasons and transferring their Places

What ever we do to Live and to Love is just the basic nature

The only Difference is By Marriage we become Monogamous and They die as Polygamous

To survive and to Replicate is the Basic Thing which gives Birth 2 a feeling called

Attraction Further transformed into LOVE!

There r needs

Emotional needs ,Physical needs, psychological needs, social needs and economical needs


If its Arrange marriage some body else(parents & elders) will think about it

we do Love marriage we think about it


Today for women

For social and economical needs she need not marry

In the past this freedom was not there

So there is a Freedom 2 women and man equally Now

Women dont need to depend on Man

It is not a Social Rule that everybody should get Married

So we have 2 think

Tie up works with us or not

Its an Individual perception

we can say we r Spiritual only when our choices are 100% ours and not for the sake of Society or Prestige


Relationships

We Find a person and search our happiness from(through him/her


If we don not have any relation then we will be depressed

SO we r seeking a relationship to be Happy or we r trying to use the other person as a source of happiness

When this "Shift" transfers from Our "self" to Other person

Our happiness and emotions depends on them and not on us any more

Thus expectation arise and which again leads 2 depression

If we r happy by our own Nature then relationships r used to express happiness and Life and not to seek

If we try too acquire happiness by squeezing some body and that person also squeezing us to acquire happiness
then It leads 2 a painful relation some dissatisfaction in every phase of Life

But if we r Joy by our own Nature and forming Relationships to express it
Then There will be no Complaints as we r not seeking we r Giving Joy and Love

So if our Life becomes an Expression of Joy and Not in pursuit of Happiness

Then Relationships will be most Beautiful thing otherwise its just opposite.

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